LIST OF STORIES

1 at work

2 street

3 in my studio

4 walking to elementary school in third grade

5 standing at the register of the coffee shop I worked for

6 at my home

7 walking down the street

8 in a car

9 school

10 locking my bike in front of my house

11 in my house (unless a partner doesn’t count)

12 street from a scary truck driver

13 walking home from middle school

14 in my home at my parent’s party

15 at work in front of coworkers

16 pinned against a building in NYC

17 running on college campus

18 gynecologist’s office from a female gynecologist

19 at work

20 university faculty club

21 walking to school

22 most frequently, WalMart

23 working in theater film & tv bookstore on Hollywood Blvd

24 at 9 on a cruise by the senior engineer

25 at work

26 riding a motorcycle

27 on the street

28 at a party

29 at home

30 at someone else’s house

31 in a movie theater

32 at a nightclub

33 on the bus

34 walking alongside the road

35 on my way to school

36 on the tube

37 at a party

38 in the park

39 in a pub

40 whilst shopping

41 at work

42 subway in NYC numerous times groping

43 at work in book publishing

44 at work in newspaper lost my job because I wouldn’t go out to dinner with boss

45 on the street silly cat calls and very vulgar suggestions

46 in a park guy jerking off while we girls ages 12 and 13 were having a picnic

47 on the street in the city midday lots of traffic

48 at a ren fair by booth people

49 university in my car

50 18 years old in main train station in Frankfurt

51 walking home from elementary school

52 while I was discussing a commissioned painting at the customers house he closed the blinds and started touching me

53 I asked to borrow a sweatshirt and then I was raped

54 at home

55 in a car

56 in a friend’s house

57 in a hotel

58 on a beach alone but with space from others nearby terrified yelled in panic ran to a headland and wept for hours

59 oncologists examining table… so shocked I couldn’t move or speak

60 middle school

61 university

62 in my bed at my grandma’s house when I was 9

63 at my schoolmate’s house

64 in an outside swimming pool

65 on the street in Prague as well as seriously being assaulted on the street in Morocco

66 grocery store

67 public shower

68 workplace

69 bus

70 in a barn

71 on a bridge

72 in a public garden

73 in my mother’s house back in Chile

74 in my neighbourhood

75 in an aunty’s house

76 at the bus

77 pediatrician’s office with a cold, unlubed speculum

78 school Latin classroom

79 on the streets of Guatemala

80 in my house in Guatemala

81 in the Vienna subway system

82 on the streets of New York

83 in the receiving area of Whole Foods

84 out of myself for four weeks because of beeing so shocked

85 Silicon Valley

86 field days

87 in my grandmother’s house

88 in a cab

89 on the el in Chicago

90 at a department store

91 at work

92 on my way to the video store

93 at the city library

94 on the underground

95 on holiday on a crazy golf course

96 walking down my street

97 at work

98 insurance company

99 subway

100 in my crib as a baby

101 in a relatives kitchen

102 in an abandoned garage

103 in a truck

104 in a restaurant

105 at a governor’s mansion

106 in a commercial kitchen

107 at school

108 at work

109 on a massage table

110 on a city street

111 at home

112 at a neighbors home

113 at a wine tasting

114 in a bar

115 on a date

116 in an elevator

117 while sketching at the Coliseum in Rome

118 riding a vaporetto in Venice

119 at work

120 walking down the street in NYC

121 sitting in a train station in Florence

122 passed out drunk in my mother’s bedroom after a party

123 school (12)

124 hotel (12)

125 home (13)

126 jogging (16)

127 street (20)

128 work (20)

129 home (23)

130 at home when I was age 10-15

131 at the restaurant I worked at in my 20s

132 at work in high school

133 at work in college

134 at work after college

135 dorm/party in college

136 algebra class

137 bar

138 street

139 my dining room

140 the gym

141 streets of Istanbul

142 every fucking place I’ve ever been

143 forgot old man fingering my nipple while I was drawing in the Hagia Sophia in Istanbul

144 at a family reunion in a state park

145 in a lift when a delivery man said I could easily stop this between floors and rape you

146 in the women’s toilets (by a man about twice my size)

147 on the sidewalk in front of my childhood house

148 in my university’s library

149 everywhere

150 at band camp at 14

151 a college party

152 a store

153 my parents’ house

154 on a train when I was 10

155 Hebrew school

156 on the street in New York

157 in a parking lot in Pittsfield, MA

158 on the subway in NY

159 in a class at Pratt

160 on Richland Avenue walking home from middle school

161 in our family room at home

162 in my apartment

163 anonymous phone calls when I was 7

164 when I was riding in a semi-truck (and when I refused to do the act, I was left, terrified, at the side of a deserted highway in the rain)

165 on a train in London, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20 – then I moved to San Francisco

166 in the hospital after surgery 25 years old

167 in the hospital before surgery by anesthesiologist 40 years old

168 many times in between

169 half strangled in Central Park late night when I was 21 as he’d bought me dinner and had taken me to show – first date and I wouldn’t go back to his place. Ran into 5th ave. Never reported – he kept calling where I worked for a second date

170 R train New York he sat across from me and masturbated no one did anything

171 gallery office room at my university New York

172 photographer’s studio New York

173 on the street New York

174 car New York

175 artist studio Korea

176 mother’s friend’s house Korea

177 cafe Korea

178 by my piano teacher

179 on the street while kids were in a restaurant upstairs

180 on a beach

181 at a university

182 at the Seattle City Attorney’s office

183 and so many more

184 1991, Meadows Printing, Bellefontaine, Ohio

185 yes, Northern Ireland

186 at a shopping mall

187 walking down a small alley in NYC

188 on the Paris metro a man grabbed my breast before he got off and then laughed at my reaction as the door closed and the train pulled away

189 the paris metros are the worst I was a student there in ’67 and had many

incidents of ‘anonymous’ grabbing and touching, both in the cars and on the platform

190 at a nightclub, man grabbed my behind and winked like yup I just did this Worst part of it he was my daughter’s friend and his wife was in the bathroom while this happened

191 in college by faculty

192 as I was sitting in my isolated work cubicle a soon-to-be-former boss stood in front of me and asked me to “check” his “jeans size” while his partner (wife) had slipped out for awhile Above my objections he opened his belt and began to unzip… I quickly stood up and said no, and was lucky to find another job shortly thereafter

193 on my uncle’s lap

194 on the subway line

195 in the woods

196 and in a hotel disgusting moments around disgusting men

197 commercial airline flight

198 during recess in sixth grade trapped in an empty classroom by an older boy

199 in a movie theater in Saigon

200 on a plane flight from Saigon to LA

201 at a party in a college dorm

202 on the street in NYC

203 on the street in Florence

204 on the street in Istanbul

205 on the street in Paris

206 on the street in Mexico City

207 almost raped in Ravenna but managed to get away

208 in science class

209 school (age 12)

210 at my first job by my female boss’s father

211 while 8 months pregnant, on my knees weeding in my front flower bed

212 while standing in a crowd of thousands watching a fireworks display, I was crotch groped from behind anonymously

213 whenever I walk down the street in Egypt (visual and verbal harassment)

214 sleepover age 11

215 school bus age 11

216 sidewalks age 11-13

217 best friend’s house age 10

218 his house (21)

219 at the beach

220 at the hotel

221 in the car

222 in my bed

223 when I was 2 at my cousin’s house (the memory comes back in meditation)

224 when I was 8 at the supermarket

225 when I was 14 by my boyfriend

226 when I was 19 at the doctor’s office

227 again when I was 21 at another doctor’s office

228 on a crowded bus in Vancouver

229 and in Turkey when I was 14, in a cafe

230 at work

231 an older, established artist grabbed me and kissed me on the lips I was one of the gallery owners

232 when I was 6 in the pool in my backyard

233 at the stairs going up to my friend’s house by my “friend”

234 at work

235 walking on the street

236 also by my boyfriend but I block that one out

237 I was harassed in the woman’s bathroom because I am transgender they called me tranny and kicked me

238 in a bedroom aged 8

239 at school on a playing field aged 12

240 by an uncle when semi-asleep aged 13

241 in central London aged 18

242 at school everyday in corners

243 pushed against walls at a party

244 afraid all the time still afraid

245 I was freelancing and the deputy manager of the company has recorded me on his mobile which he put through a hole in a wall I was in a toilet and he recorded me from behind whilst I was urinating

246 in a tent in the Lake District I locked myself in our car and froze all night as my then husband wouldn’t give me a blanket or sleeping bag unless…

247 walking home from a shopping mall in Queens NY a guy came past on a bike and just put his hand right up my skirt between my legs and groped he was gone before I could react

248 where to start?? in the street as a little girl was the earliest

249 the first time? walking down the hall at school in 7th grade

250 in the driving instructor’s car while I was driving

251 I was harassed at school

252 I have been sexually harassed since I was in middle school

253 I have also been harassed on busy streets

254 last year at my hotel where I reported the incidents and the man was never fired

255 sexually harassed at work repeatedly

256 junior high

257 high school

258 the schoolbus

259 at work

260 at a concert

261 at my friend’s house

262 at the beach

263 on a sidewalk

264 at home

265 highway rest stop

266 for years at work by a gay man

267 wearing a tank top in Berkeley guy made lewd comments about my breasts

268 on city streets (catcalled countless times)

269 by a different boss at a different NY company from the previous one (this one meant it as a “joke,” but he told it in front of two additional superiors)

270 by a different boss at an arts organization in Hartford

271 on a college campus

272 at parties

273 on a date when I was 16 and my date, who was 19, gave me the Donald Trump treatment without my consent (and I wouldn’t have given it to him!)

274 over the phone when I was a child

275 church

276 my street

277 babysitting

278 Durham NC summer band camp age 14

279 at home

280 on the couch in his bedroom

281 the first time, at 10, walking to my parents car…

282 Walmart age 15

283 Walgreens age 15

284 middle school algebra classroom

285 high school hallways freshman year

286 the mall

287 my sick bed

288 chiropractor office by the dr

289 on a main street (attempted rape)

290 at work

291 on the street in Istanbul

292 standing on a corner in Florence a guy on a motorcycle ran a hand over my breasts

293 as an adult walking down the sidewalk in Algiers with my husband by a group of boys about eight or nine years old who grabbed my breasts

294 on the beach

295 Seattle at a bus stop

296 high school halls

297 in my grandfathers house

298 in my childhood home

299 in the US Coast Guard

300 at every job I have ever had

301 in my own home

302 in the library #metoo

303 at my coworker’s birthday party

304 Red Roof Inn

305 in an alley in Georgia

306 in a car

307 during a game of Uno

308 in a pool at a party

309 in the restroom at a party

310 outside of Lennox Mall in Atlanta

311 harassed in the car by my good Christian math teacher who had offered me a lift home. I had just turned 14.

312 in Morocco

313 in an anbandoned semi truck behind a grocery store

314 on the Metro in Paris

315 Baltimore Diner in Sheffield UK 1987 I was 17 and a waitress. Aware it was harassment (from drunken male customer) reported it to duty manager who told me “You’re a waitress on a Saturday late, deal with it. I ended up slapping the harasser and leaving my job.

316 at a new year’s party in my friend’s apartment in Ohio. I was 20 at the time

317 in an entertainment workplace

318 a smack on the butt

319 someone followed me into my house and raped me

320 in my room

321 in a school bus when I was 13

322 in my car while I was driving

323 at a therapist’s office grade 1 (therapist)

324 in a classroom grade 3 (2 classmates)

325 in my apartment age 21 (ex-boyfriend)

326 in a house age 21 (acquaintance)

327 in a converted shed cabin age 22 (friend’s friend)

328 outside a club on a cold night age 26 (stranger)

329 in a hotel room age 30 (acquaintance)

330 on a school trip in a hotel room, alone with him (I was 15)

331 work by an employee, healthcare professional female

332 nightclub asked me repeatedly if he can lift me up and carry me I said repeatedly No. My friend encouraged this pig after I said No again and that I didn’t want to. This pig said that it didn’t matter and abruptly grabbed me and carried me and demanded to take pictures. Before he put me slowly down he put his disgusting hands on my butt

333 crossing the street to get to a bus stop in Victoria BC (catcalling)– age 11

334 walking in an outdoor mall (catcalling with detailed description of what he wanted, words that I didn’t understand at all at the time, but knew were dirty)– age 11 or 12

335 walking home from school with friends (propositioned and “offered” a ride in a convertible with the understanding that my friends were not invited)– age 13

336 in an empty schoolyard (forced to give oral sex by an older boy)–age 14

337 waiting in line outside a concert venue (forcibly kissed by a stranger)–age 14

338 at the house of a child I was babysitting, by the father (manipulated into accepting a “massage” that turned into digital penetration. The second time this happened (same man)I physically fought back.)– age 14 (I never babysat for anyone except family or friends again)

339 on public transit in Vancouver BC, too many times to recall here, especially between the ages of 14 and 18. The ones I particularly remember are when a stranger who was sitting beside me tried to touch me and I was finally brave enough to speak up loudly and say “get your hands off of me!”, around age 16, and once when I was standing on a crowded bus and an elderly man pretended to lose his balance as he was heading to the exit and firmly grabbed my ass on his way out, age about 17.

340 walking home from the bus stop after school. (catcalling with detailed description of the man’s desires– he slowed down his car to match my pace for quite a stretch) age 15

341 waiting at a crowded bus stop outside a popular movie theater on Granville Street in Vancouver BC with 2 of my friends. We were 15, there were plenty of on-lookers, nobody intervened even as this man pulled out a knife and started waving it in front of our faces calling me a bitch and a cunt because I dared to tell him to “get away from us” after he repeatedly and aggressively offered to show us his “junk”, told us he was a stripper and was wearing a thong, etc.

342 on streets in Vancouver too many times to count. I have learned to ignore catcalling, but when I was a child it deeply affected me (which is why I listed the ones I did above)

343 in my own bed, by a man that I love, during or after an argument, or while I was asleep, more times than I would like to admit — age adult

344 a friend literally pried my legs apart when I went to his house to study

345 a man grabbed my butt multiple times on a bus in Florence, then followed me when I got off to tell me I had “beautiful lines”

346 my phone was full of unsolicited dick pics until I deleted the dating app

347 a man trapped me in his car after a date and only kissed me harder when I said I had to go home

348 when I was in middle school a stranger called me while he was masturbating

349 in the classroom

350 on the sidewalk outside my house

351 in my high school library

352 the halls Washington Middle School Seattle WA

353 in the workplace when my manager contrived a way to list me on the patent that diminished the appearance of my contribution. All four of the male founders were there to witness.

354 in my therapist’s office-in his office at the church where he was the priest when he asked me questions about my sexuality and I realized he was getting off

355 in my living room when the dashing young city councilman who told me if I didn’t agree to sex he would beat me and that it might upset or frighten my young children sleeping in the next room

356 in my garden after I tied my tubes and my current date, upset at my choice, poked me in my incision and asked does ‘that’ hurt

357 by the man who tugged at his waistline and licked his lips when he looked at me

358 in my marital bed when I reached out to embrace him and he shoved my face into the pillow

359 at the bus stop when two men tried to push me into their car as I waited for a bus

360 by the wealthy man who took me to dinner and then to a woman’s home where he pointedly asked if she thought I would do

361 by the blonde woman in Mexico who pawed at my genitals through my dress on the dance floor

362 in his car as the boyfriend of a classmate was raping me-stopping only because I convinced him I had gonorrhea and he would give it to her

363 by a family friend in my bedroom pinned to a wall when he helped us move

364 in my church bathroom by the janitor

365 in my home by a family member who beat me

366 in my home by a family member who sexually abused me

367 in my family home at five years of age when my parents asked why I provoked him after being beat by a sibling, 8 years my senior

368 on a park bench

369 in a trusted family friend’s apartment when I was 3 or 4 years old

370 at school while sitting at a shared table by a male peer at age 5

371 in front of my family’s apartment around age 7

372 in my own bed at age 8 or 9 (some of these memories I’ve worked very hard to block out)

373 Cypress College Cypress, CA

374 in my therapist’s office

375 at school

376 at the library

377 at Alcoholics Anonymous

378 in my childhood bedroom

379 in my current home

380 in a hospital waiting room/area

381 in a car park

382 in the supermarket

383 at the dentist’s

384 at work

385 in summation- everywhere at some time or other!

386 in my car in the movie theater parking lot

387 in a nightclub in Germany where my friend tolerated and encouraged the decision my sexual assaulter executed on me

388 it was at the Eiffel Tower. He wouldn’t let me go. I kept trying to leave. He took my first kiss from me. I was never the same.

389 by a photographer in DC

390 by a student in West VA

391 I was raped by 5 boys at a party in my best friend’s bedroom

392 on a plane close friend who thought I was asleep

393 in the psychiatric unit of the hospital after a suicide attempt when I was 13 the harassment lasted the entirety of my two months there

394 walking home from school

395 at a disco bathroom cubicle

396 at work as a waitress

397 drugged while I was life modeling for an artist at his studio

398 at a funeral reception

399 outside a club in Seattle a very intoxicated guy said “if you think I’m cute you’ll make out with me” and before I could say anything, his tongue was down my throat

400 at my job in the mall

401 almost raped on a playground in my neighbourhood by one of my best friends

402 on the train

403 at the beach

404 on whatsapp

405 in Belgium

406 at the beach by a professor I admired

407 a friend was supposed to show me around the city manipulated and harassed me in my hotel room

408 on holiday when I was 13 years old and wearing a sundress

409 there are so many but I’ll give a few of the first ones

410 15 yrs old while riding on bus w rest of girls’ volleyball team, I-65 in Indianapolis man driving along side of bus masturbating watching our horrified faces. I had never seen a penis it took me so long to figure out what was going on, I was so embarrassed, he saw our male coach then sped off

411 front seat of parent’s friend’s car in my own driveway as he dropped me off from babysitting their children

412 Clark Fork River floating on inner tubes 18 yrs old, noticed naked male masturbating tried to tell my friend calmly as we floated by far too close not to react she started yelling at him he started coming after us down the bank and into the water we had to swim to the other side

413 in my house by my ex

414 on the Queen Mary in Long Beach CA

415 in my classroom by my student

416 in my sister’s bedroom when I was 8

417 sleeping on the floor in my aunt’s house when I was 15 and 21

418 in my apartment while I was sleeping when I was 25

419 a man I once loved threatened to sabotage me, kill me, and get away with it a month after I was sexually assaulted. My rapist and that man have walked away scotch free…while I struggle to make life work with a few revengeful slips

420 gym in high school, Atlanta

421 back office, luxury hotel, San Francisco

422 couch at a teacher’s house, Atlanta

423 work holiday office party – Hartford

424 exploring a cave with a guide – Semuq Champey, Guatemala

425 in the kitchen at my father’s house (followed inside by the aggressor)

426 in the Newborn Nursery in the hospital

427 unbelievably I have been harassed repeatedly I was date raped in college when I was 19

428 twice men have exposed themselves once when I was 21 and the lunch receptionist relief in San Francisco another time was at San Francisco Intl Airport when I was 30 waiting for an incoming flight

429 Lastly I was repeatedly harassed by another passenger on a cruise to Norway last year

430 in the home I grew up in during family dinners walking through the living room in my bed etc

431 in Dalston London while out for my part time job dog-walking

432 in Camden London when I didn’t feel like I could leave and he didn’t listen to me saying I didn’t want to

433 in my college dorm (at the time) study room

434 second time was in a bar at a Halloween Party

435 18 mos by after at home Gispic Croatia

436 playground in a ditch when I was 8 yo older neighborhood boys Gospic Croatia

437 front yard family home Bellwood Illinois age 16 my father tried to choke me with a telephone cord for protecting my mother from him

438 in HS by boys nonstop Hilldide Illinois

439 my first job at supermarket Bellwood Illinois father’s friend Angelo who owned the store grabbed me as I was handing in my cash drawer I managed to pull away kicking him money and coins flying all over the place I ran home without a coat in freezing weather my father said I was a liar that Angelo was his friend he beat me that night

440 in Zagreb Croatia 1980-1985 nonstop Art history professor Graphics design Professor held at knife point by a Bosnian student at the dorms in Nov 1982, kidnaped and raped beat up badly Jan 9th 1983 stalked and daily threats through July 1985

441 at Illinois Institute of technology 1985-90 two professors plus male colleagues

442 1987 Berkeley Illinois my father slapped me on the eve of my wedding I told him to please stop pouring drinks for my friends who were already drunk

443 1999 Chicago Illinois my first job after kids were born my boss

444 riding my bike to work I was ass grabbed by a passenger in a moving car lost my balance and nearly fell into oncoming traffic

445 at a wedding party, groped by the host

446 sitting in a dentist’s chair with my dentist’s hands inside my mouth

447 in the basement of a public library, where I worked

448 outside a Walmart, in my yoga pants, leaving with groceries

449 in a tent when I was 15

450 elementary school

451 2 volte a Firenze–18 anni, 1 volta in Campania-48 anni

452 at my “boyfriend’s” (16)

453 at a party (15)

454 by my photographer in Parry Sound (18)

455 by my roommate (19)

456 in my bed at home by my older male cousin. I was 9

457 in my home by a preacher in his 70s. I was 13 or 14

458 at school on the playing fields. One of the boys grabbed my left breast and squeezed it hard on our lunch break

459 at school again walking back to class the same boy ran past me and smacked my arse really heard it left a mark

460 at a party

461 at home through text messages

462 at home

463 at work I’m sick of it

464 school verbally and physically by both boys and girls

465 street by a man who followed me on a bike until I reached home, calling me “bitch”, “slut” etc. he even asked me if I would fuck him if he just paid me

466 subway by an old man who rubbed his dick against my thigh, touching his nipples through his shirt everyone saw this and nobody said a thing

467 bus by a guy who put his hand on my thigh, while he was touching his dick and licking his lips again everybody saw and no one did a thing

468 car of a “friend” he put my hand on his dick and touched my breasts more than once even if I said “no” every single time

469 during a parade a guy smiled at me and then put his hands in my bra when I pushed him away he smiled again blew me a kiss and ran away

470 lift it was a really small one and I was going up with a man and his dog. He kept staring at me all the time and I was embarrassed so I just smiled and faked to read something on my phone when it was my turn to get out he quickly approached me and put his leg between my legs trying to touch my vagina with his knee

471 I could go on forever…

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472 here

473 there

474 and everywhere